Why is Sharing Hard for Toddlers?

Sharing is a learned skill, and toddlers naturally focus on their own needs. Understanding why sharing is difficult helps parents guide children through the process patiently.

Strategies to Teach Sharing

1. Model Generosity: Show sharing behavior in daily life.
2. Use Play to Practice: Play turn-taking games to reinforce the concept.
3. Praise Positive Sharing: Encourage even small acts of sharing.
4. Set Expectations: Use simple rules like “We take turns.”
5. Respect Their Feelings: Give them time to adjust rather than forcing them to share instantly.
6. Teach Through Role-Playing: Use dolls or toys to act out sharing scenarios.

Activities That Encourage Sharing

• Playing board games that require turn-taking.
• Reading books about sharing (e.g., “Llama Llama Time to Share”).
• Using “sharing bins” for toys that belong to the whole family.

Sources:

• National Association for the Education of Young Children – The Importance of Teaching Sharing
• Harvard Graduate School of Education – Building Social Skills in Early Childhood

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